and her Mother never reconciled. Is it Christian to allow your mother to try to break up your marriage when that marriage has produced two children? a lavish weddingthrough the years Bette supported B.D. You might want to do the same before you determine what kind of people they are. is still married to Hyman today. I know no one that knows the Bible like her and her fruit is evident of it. And she had to have know that, but it was more important, perhaps, to have a reasonable life. Bottom line folks: the Bible tells us to honor thy father and thy mother.. It says nothing about respecting parents as long as they do what you want them to. Its nice to know she has found PEACE with her ministry and books. I think each incident related was embellished. May Bette rest in peace. You want to introduce Christianity into someones life? What can convince her that we have to measure up now in order to inherit the future? It ended up costing $1 billion to clean up the site. Ms. Davis was one of the most famous women in the world and by shaming her into accepting the Lord by embarrassment is a low tactic at best. What is distressing is the BD Hyman never seems to use the words, Im sorry or never expresses any sort of repentance that I can see. at the Cannes film festival in 1963 when she was accompanying her mother during the promotion for What Ever Happened to Baby Jane? Experiences, organizations, & how he spent his time. This article is so one sided. I know that is not B.D.s story but it happens to plenty of other children. Please accept Echovita's sincere condolences. Hyman. I believe every word B.D. I had the privilege of knowing Bette Davis and working with her. I only just became aware after seeing Payment on Demand last night on TCM. Sounds like her childhood was okay, given Bette Davis popularity, money, resources, etc. Only a devil hiding in sheeps clothing would ever do such a thing. Im a middle class accountant, who grew up hunting and fishing on a huge family Texas ranch. My guess is Bette put her daughters happiness above her image and her rights as a parents in this case. I told him he had made NONE.but that he loved me, provided well for us and taught me alot about many things that I would never forget.he died 2 days later. I wanted to write because I too felt compelled to point out that The Hyman defenders are very quick to cry that the Bette defenders are judging. My Mother's Keeper was a best-seller; the second book, however, did not generate the same level of interest. This section is to introduce Jeremy Hyman with highlights of his life and how he is remembered. is a born-again Christian who heads up a church in Virginia. be thanking her God Ms. Hyman is in a lot of trouble. I let her know, kindly, I would not put up with her bad behavior any longer, but that I would gladly visit, take her to the doctor, etc if she could be pleasant or at least civil. Stop allowing society and even ourselves to take this incredible process for granted. As far as her mother and her, that is not my business, but I believe B.D., quite simply and she has never steered me wrong spiritually. Just because the world recognized a tremendous talent in Bette Davis doesn't mean they see her as perfect personally.the point is, BD wrote this book while her mother was gravely ill. Christian? I dont know. Ive watched old talk shows in which Bette never did anything but PRAISE her daughter. I actually understand how she must have felt. Ive just lost my mom and in church have realized that I miss her. Like, its okay that their parents were vicious and cruel, but its not okay for their children to branch out and try to make it on their own. Sure, I thought about writing a book many years ago, to show that in this life, we are beneficiaries and or victims of our upbringing. I thank God that I had the wherewithal to know that I needed help to prevent me from repeating the behavior with my own children. Glad that you are a Christian and hope your mom believed in the end about Jesus and God. I just re-read My Mothers Keeper and then looked on the web to see interviews with B.D. So it is unfair for people to judge what they cannot possibly understand since they likely never experienced anything close to what B.D. At the time of B.D.s birth, Bette had already been a star for quite some time! Even when people die the relationship goes on..so When we share what we know, together we discover more. BD gives the familiar lines about not preaching, while she in fact is preaching. 1933 in London), the British nephew of Seven Arts Productions owner Eliot Hyman, on a blind date for the film's showing at the Cannes Film Festival, in 1963, and the couple married when B. D. was age 16 and Jeremy was age 29. Some of you people should try spending a day with a personality disordered parent and then see how judgmental you are. I do not agree with Jack Normans take on B.D. I am pretty certain Hyman would have gotten a lot further with Bette by shutting her out. I am a Christian. Is it Christian to allow a controlling and abusive parent to control and abuse our own children right before our eyes? deserve to be in the same room with her mother. Id like to offer to pay for her cat scan. Her young beauty is hardened and I, also, wonder what she does for the mentally-challenged sister. Never once did Hyman assert Davis had been a physically abusive parent. She gave her too much, bragged on her too much, let her get away with too much. We all agree that our mother makes Joan Crawford and Bette Davis look like perfect little angels. One thing that is required of a true believer in Christ is to forgive. Help paint a picture of Jeremy so that he is always remembered. Then I IMDBd it and found all this stuff about BD Hyman. and you'll be alerted when others do the same. Radiation leaked into the environment, resulting in a rating of 5 on a scale of 7 ("Accident With Wider Consequences") . If you would have lived B.D.s life from childhood, you would probably be a famous actress now, drunk with power and sin, wealthy from your mothers cash and your own fame and cash also, the spitting image of your mother in every way, and Hell bound. All I have to add is, My Mothers Keeper was all about money. In my early twenties, I became angry about it. Why would an extremely controlling mother have allowed and been approving of her 16 year old daughter marrying despite public criticism. I am a what she terms Holy Roller. And now, 21 years later I understand who she was as a person and I love and FORGIVE her. Celebrities are humans sinners with more license than most people to do as they please. Is Bette your goddess? And as I alluded previously, some things Hyman saw as character flaws I found to be amusing and entertaining, reinforcing my love of one of entertainments greatest real-life characters. Shame on all of you that have passed judgment on her. Perhaps BD could learn from the wisdom of the past, and learn most of all to be silent about things that are in the past. It seems to me that youve decided to cleave to the word of a sensationalist author whose so-called Christian spirit didnt even see fit to speak with her ailing mother before publishing a defamatory, tattletale novel about her, rather than the great number of people who came to Daviss defense. Hyman is a woman to be respected and listened to. I thank God I do not have anything like that on me to my mother when she left this world.I am sure B. D. has to be feeled with sorrow I know I would be.. She is very undereducated, having left school so young perhaps she just has not seen anything but her own views and therefore thinks she is correct in all she says. made the only choice she could i.e., her husband and her children. Her mother may not have known any better and made many mistakes, but B.D. Hmmmwonder why they dont mention in this article how Bette Davis supported B.D. If anyone ever reads the second book, youll find that she justifies her husbands failure to work upon relocating to the Bahamas, as well as the family preference for snorkling and sleeping in over church attendance. I too come from an But he and I were devout agnostics and considered religion to be for people who needed something to lean on. But at home, when my husband Jeremy looked at me, he got teary-eyed and said, The Lord is real. He soon became a Christian as a result of the miracle. Born May 1, 1947, in Santa Ana, California, she is the daughter of Davis and artist William Grant Sherry (19141995). Hymans actions. With any other disease she wouldve been given some slack, but with alcoholism people only judge. 2 birth records, View Beloved,I write this with love and compassion for all and w/o passing judgement on anyone. Clearly BD missed this part of the Bible when she was reading it. I always thought Bette was a woman whos thinking was way ahead of her time. I am a Christian, believe in God and love my mother and the rest of my family, even though my mom was not very nice to me. Davis' Marriage Stood The Test of Time", "Jessica Lange uses famed Amy Schumer sketch to explain, "She's got Bette Davis Eyes: B.D. has passed the Davis had often acknowledged herself, in book and interviews, her marriages were failures, more or less legitimized affairs, the only positive results of which were her children. I judge no one; not my mother; not B.D. Colleen J. Hyman, 72, of Toms River passed away peacefully at home surrounded by her family on Friday, December 3, 2021. I do not know personally this woman BD. A father who shot himself when I was 6 years old, an alcoholic mother who threatened suicide constantly. Just like donna pointed out they are assessments on the situation. Lack of maturity always a factor. How sad. The average age of B.D. For this reason I feel that her motives were not pure. is the true parasite. He was not only a man I worked with for 17 years, but also an amazing mentor and friend. Gary Merrill said the book was full of outrageous lies and Michael cut off all contact with BD. I guess she completely overlooked Christianity and the Bibles emphasis on respecting ones parents, not the mention completely overlooking the central tenant of Christianity FORGIVENESS. What a human being. That is not right. She invented horrible untrue stories of her childhood and she truly seems to believe these stories. The Economist: Russias economy in recovery, Wests about to collapse, Largest Missile Attacks in Ukraine Yet Eyewitness, The Right to Life and Egalitarian Humanism, The Large Christian Family is the Future of Humanity, The Emerging Multipolar World America as a Model of Liberty, The Emerging Multipolar World Rebuilding Christian Civilization. Very rarely do I ever hear people complain about how abusive their fathers were to them; maybe because they werent around? My wife never saw her dad after the age of 10. has had along time in hell on earth thinking Now in her 60s, do we, the tax payers and folks that worked our whole lives at real jobs, have to pay social security benefits to a women that never worked an honest days work in her life? and Jeremy for years, and got nothing but a stab in the back for her efforts? By the way, go on a diet fatass. At no time did I read that after becoming a Christian did BD tell her mother she forgave her for all those allegedly horrible things she did to her as a child or to her children. for that because she basically said goodbye to any inheritance. No. She would send me to bed with the remark someday youre going to wake up and Ill be gone dead and gone.. No mother is perfect and for her only daughter to write such things for all the world to see while Bette was at the end of her life, and then to be slapped with this I found Jesus and so should you bullshit after such a betrayal, mustve hurt Bette beyond belief. Photos, memories, family stories & discoveries are unique to you, and only you can control. 1. My children included. And yet, my three brothers and I were raised by a mother who was both physically and emotionally abusive. Just what is Calvinism? Cherished mother of Edward, Leah, Beth and the late Miriam Hyman & her surviving husband Daniel Weiner. I firmly believe that B D did not desire or care about her Mother recovering after the cancer and strokes. Lets face itBette had a different look with her eyes being the trademark. You are a respecter of persons. In 1987, on October 19th, stock exchanges around the world crashed. I drove him home in my car, just he and i. My family was and is in the oil business, to this very day. I guess I wish Bd had chosen a different way to try and introduce her mother to Christianity. This is not being Christ like. Bette is quoted in the book, Bette & Joan: The Divine Feud as allegedly saying about B.D., "Great face, great body, and smart too. I concur with the many who believe that the motive was monetary. One was quoted as saying if the Hymans hadnt fled the town, the townspeople would have had to burn them out. Difficult circumstances were thorwn her way early in her life, but she was a survivor. Indeed, the disagreements mentioned in Hymans book were of the verbal and paths of life sort. it while others NEVER But it is an old tradition, with a quiet, deep spirituality. Roger Martin, your_ip_is_blacklisted_by sbl.spamhaus.org. Where was Jeremy born and where did he live? BD has a natural beauty that Bette never had. It truly is sad. We do not know all things, and we do not know someones heart, that is Gods business, not ours. For if she truly wanted to deal with the pain she would have done it in a more personal way and she would have left her mothers name out of any of her future endeavors. to the best of her ability. I personally think it was all about money. The alcoholism was a major factor in Bettes life. Hymans authoring a book about her mother. B.D. A true Christian or someone who truly understood Christs message of forgiveness and love would not have chosen to tear her family apart by humilating their parent in public. Read & celebrate the life of Obituaries I believed some of it. And no publishing a tell-all scandal book for millions of dollars is not the way to forgive someone or heal old wounds.. as a best friend to BD Hymans eldest son Jeremy Ashley, I can tell you that that was a needed book for her to write to bring the horrible and bipolar life that was with Bette Davis. In my opinion Hyman, is not a Christian. Words cannot describe the feeling one feels when confronted with a loved one who uses Hyper Spirituality as a weapon. She far surpasses her mother in toughness and role playing. Bette has been dead awhile now. God rest her soul. BTW, just for the record. Who were the people in Jeremy's life? BARRY P. HYMAN BAYONNE Barry P. Hyman, 62, of Bayonne, passed away on June 29th, 2012 following an extended illness. So is my mother. when he died at the age of . This includes those of us that were raised by abusive mothers. 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